Addressing Challenging Behaviors (Part 1, Elementary): Understanding the Acting-Out Cycle

Transcript: Kathleen Lane, PhD

It is critical for all educators who interact with students of all ages to understand the nature of acting-out behavior. And while it may seem that challenging or acting-out behavior just simply comes out of nowhere, in actuality, it’s simply [laughs] not entirely true. Oftentimes, there is a precursor behavior, something that comes before this big peak behavior when it happens. And remember, students engage in some of these less than desirable behaviors for a reason. That behavior is occurring to tell you something. There’s a communicative intent to that behavior. That behavior is telling you what they’re trying to either get or what they’re trying to avoid. There’s something generally that sets the stage for this behavior. But if we, as teachers, can approach it this way as a problem-solving approach, rather than taking it very personally, like “This child was so disrespectful to me.” Yes, it does come across as being disrespectful, but there’s a reason why it happened. If we can approach it from this problem-solving perspective, we can intervene much earlier to allow that student to maintain their dignity. And it allows you an opportunity to maintain your role as the instructional leader in that classroom. It allows you to keep instruction moving forward, and it creates a sense of safety for all of the other students in that classroom to know that you’re going to do your personal best to continue to model that really respectful behavior towards others. Because that should be the ultimate goal. All students are here to learn and gain academic and social experiences. And part of that is going to be to learn how to manage behaviors when things feel challenging along the way. And if we, as teachers, watch carefully, we can actually see that challenging behavior is part of a cycle of behavior. And the good news is that teacher behavior, such as providing engaging lessons with clear objectives and explaining upfront what you’re looking for in terms of behavioral and social skills objectives as well as academic objectives, really sets the stage so that we can be clear on what we’re hoping to accomplish. And then we can be well prepared on how to respond when things go wrong. Kind of like when the wheels fall off the bus, so to speak. But we want to have a clear path for setting the stage for calm, positive, productive environments that are grounded in these really respectful relationships with kids, with a clear plan in place as to what to do at each stage in the acting out cycle with hopefully the goal of never getting to peak behavior.